Friday, January 22, 2010

those certain friends...

I don't know about you guys, but I have friends in my life who have their own special category. They certainly aren't mere acquaintances, though I sometimes see them less than those I do label as such. I don't know that best friends is quite the correct term, given they don't quite fit that definition (though does anyone really fit it?!). And they definitely aren't just friends.
I have friends like this, three to be exact. I see two of them fairly often, and tonight was the first time I've seen one of them in over a year. And while I love the two I see often and we get along just fine, something clicks when we're all together (though my one friend wasn't there tonight) that I just know holds its own special place in the world of friendships. And tonight after being with them all together made me feel truly at ease and happy at the same time.
It is a formula that works so well, and it is one of those things in life there is no point in analyzing or wondering how. It just is. And it is the perfect reminder as to why friends do not even need labels. These three girls I have considered important in my life since seventh grade. I may not see them constantly. They may not even know half the people in my life. We may not shout out "Besties!" to each other, and we spend less time together than I do with awkward relatives I barely know. But I do know that when we are together, we never stop talking and laughing. We are never critical of each other, and we always have the right things to say. Somehow.
And after a rough time, it's nice to have these meetings with people like these friends to remind you that no, you're terrible, and yes, there are people you can trust easily.
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17 comments:

  1. Real friends are treasures... glad you have found them.

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  2. aw what a sweet post. i have friends like those too; i love it how we can just pick up from where we left off no matter how long ago we've last seen each other :)

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  3. That is so sweet! You are blessed in more ways than you could ever imagine:)

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  4. :) so lovely!!

    xoxo
    mycherrygum.blogspot.com

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  5. That's so cool! Friendship is a strange thing. I'm not sure I have friends like what you're talking about, but I see what you mean. Friends are different in different contexts.

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  6. So sweet.... I think life would be less fun without friends :)

    With Love...
    Marta

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  7. Just adorable! I don't really have much friends at all actually, but I do treasure friendship a lot, real friends are hard to find.

    xo
    Sophie

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  8. That is just so wonderful! It's amazing to have people like these in your life, you are really lucky!
    -Marz

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  9. Very cute post. True friends are hard to find, some people barely have 1, you're very lucky that you got 3 great friends!

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  10. sweet, and lovely pictures!
    xoxo

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  11. lucky you to have what you have. not many people can claim even to have 2 good friends like that.
    so sweet.
    xox alison

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  12. What a wonderful post! It was so heartwarming. You are truly blessed to have friends like that :)

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  13. Such a wonderful post. Good friends are hard to come by; I'm so glad that you have four fabulous ones!! :)

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  14. I am glad that you have wonderful friends to be with and enjoy their company. What a darling photo of you all too!

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  15. I love the 3 sunglasses on all 3 girls. Fabulous :D

    ♡,
    Jessica

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  16. I know exactly what you're talking about! Its so nice to have friends like these: the ones you don't really see that often, but when you do, its just so much fun, and its not like you hardly see each other.

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