Monday, December 28, 2009

that fiery new year's kiss

That was goal last year.Be able to come out of my shell enough, find the right guy, even if he wasn't Prince Charming, and get one of those "whoa" kisses by New Year's Eve. And... so far it looks like I haven't succeeded at all. I mean, in all fairness, I still have a little less than a week left, but the chances are looking pretty slim.
But, unlike how I would feel last year, this year I don't mind so much. I mean, yeah, of course it'd be nice to have the happily ever after kiss {actually first kiss period the end...}, but this year has been such a different experience--for the better-- that I don't even mind not reaching my New Year's Goal. I've met so many new friends, done so many new things.... Despite the irritations that come with a small public high school, and the undying wish to leave said high school since I was fourteen, 2009 was a pretty good year to me. =)
How about you guys? Any new years goal you didn't achieve, but somehow don't care so much any more?

19 comments:

  1. sweet sincere post! that 'whoa' guy and 'whoa-knee-jerking-foot-popping' kiss will happen!
    xxx big hug xx
    marian.

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  2. The comment above mine reminded me of "The princess diaries". It is good that you are not upset about it, I wish more people were less hard on themselves.

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  3. heh. I was never a big fan of kissing the guy I am with on New Years Eve cuz I dunno I always thought of it as jinxing it! But you're right nothing to be upset about not kissing anyone, after all it's better to not kiss anyone then end up kissing a douche that breaks up with you later right?!

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  4. A great New Year's eve kiss at midnight is always one of my resolutions, but alas this year I don't think I'll get one. It's okay, when I do get one I'll remember it & be so happy.

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  5. Great things come to those who wait... that's my message for you sweetie.

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  6. There is still time to find you that fiery new year's kiss, I will be wishing it to happen for you! If not, there is always the new year and you are a beautiful girl for being single and sassy. ;) You deserve the best and it will be great!

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  7. Yeah, it's really just best to wait and let it come. Looking back, I don't mind how long I had to wait for my first kiss, because I ended up with a pretty cool story from it. I didn't really make resolutions last year and if I had I doubt I would have kept them, but I'm really happy with where this year has taken me. It's been so much more than I expected.

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  8. Ah I want a new year eve kiss too :P But I dont even haf a boyf..lol

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  9. I try not to set goals that are bound to not be reached, but I like yours and the fact that you are not sad about it going unfulfilled... this is a refreshing perspective! Hope you have a wonderful NYE, darling!

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  10. Snagging a foot-popping New Year's Eve kiss is always on my list of goals, as well; however, it won't be happening this year. Perhaps next year. Loving the fact that you're not disappointed - it only makes you strive harder to obtain it in the future!! :)

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  11. I think that's a fun goal to have for the new YEar. I hope you get your wish!

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  12. Even if it doesn't come on new years, it's better to do it when the time is perfect. new years kisses are usually a little forced, awkward and not as personal because so many people are around.

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  13. thankx for your suggestion!! :)

    lovely blog!

    xoxo
    mycherrygum.blogspot.com

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  14. I wish I gonna get the New Years Eve Kiss from the same guy for rest of my life :)

    I always have goals....so great feeling to work for them,reach them.

    Have an amazing Happy New Year 2010!

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  15. I always try to set goals for myself, but if things turn out a different way than I was hoping, I am still trying not to sweat it. It probably wasn't meant to be anyway.

    Hope you're having a great NYE! xo

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  16. Lol, the first comment totally reminded me of "The Princess Diaries"! Don't worry, it will come. =)

    I really don't have any NY goals, I kinda don't make any. =/

    xo
    Sophie

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  17. Aww, I think every girl dreams of having that fiery passionate kiss you're talking about! I know I did! And I dreamt about it for years before it came true:)

    I hope your prince charming will come very soon and that you'll have that fairy tale 'whoa' kiss you've thought about!

    p.s. First kisses is the sweetest experience ever, it's magic!

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  18. aw i'm sure you'll definitely have that fiery kiss someday & maybe even unexpectedly which would even be better ;)

    last year i wanted to go to times square in NY to see the ball drop, and being from new york i felt like i should do it once in my life haha. last year i scrapped the idea & partied instead, but this new year's eve, that's where i'll be! haha

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